September 25


A Man’s View In A Women’s World

18 women and 1 man.

This weekend we hosted the Look, Feel, Be Great Women’s Seminar created by Christian Cruz, my wife, to help empower women to look, feel, and be great on their terms. As the only male in the room I wanted share the most important thing I learned.

There were 3 speakers.

Christian started by sharing Pillar 1 – Mastery Mindset, then Jennifer shared Pillar 2 – Nutritional “Know-How”, Britteny presented Pillar 3 – The Beauty Blueprint, and finally, Christian concluded the seminar with Pillar 4 – Fit & Functional.  They each built on each other with one underlying theme.


What are the questions you are asking?


Last night I was listening to a Tony Robbins CD and he shared the same message I heard all weekend long.

“The quality of your life is directly proportional to the quality of the questions you ask.”


Below are 10 out of the 23 values Christian shared about high quality questions and what they contribute in your life

–   They allow us to generate new thoughts, ideas, and solutions.
–   They remove fear, feelings of inadequacy and hopelessness.
–   They can generate responses that excite us and transform us.
–   They give us clarity.
–   They don’t assume, they listen and thus find the truth.
–   They allow us to shift our mindset, by allowing us to seek solutions rather than see problems.
–   They create time, money, resources, friends, love, hope, joy where we did not see it before.
–   They ground us while giving us wings to soar.
–   They create possibility
–   They empower us to be the leaders of our life, to live our lives on purpose, with purpose and for a greater purpose


 After reading the values of high quality questions 3 things become apparent.


1.   My wife is clearly the smarter one of the 2 of us.

[No explanation needed.]

2.   By asking better questions, you will get better answers.

[Your questions become the microscope you look at a problem with. The better the question the better your microscope. The magnification of your lens becomes greater allowing you to see more detail and it allows for more focus which gives you more clarity and accuracy to know what to do and why to do it.]

3.   Freedom is all around you.

[Your success is limited by your ability to ask better questions. Often we find ourselves boxed in, confined to doing the same things over and over again, and we wonder why we are not progressing. High quality questions can help you take that box that once confined you, put it on it’s side, stand on it, and allow it to become your soap box to share your message with the world.]


If you are looking become empowered, if you are looking to have more success with your fitness and nutrition, If you looking to achieve your goals then ask better questions. Take control today.


ACTION STEP:  Finish these sentence stems in the comments section below.

*   I feel happiest when…

*   I feel healthiest when…

*   I feel accomplished when…





PSAttention Women: Go to to get on the VIP List for next years event absolutely FREE.


PPS – Don’t forget to leave your answers in the comments section below to the 3 statements in the ACTION STEP section.




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